Dignity

Dignity: the quality or state of being worthy, honored, or esteemed.

Merriam-Webster

In all our actions, we should have our dignity in mind. The definition above points outward as in dignity is something bestowed upon us by others, but from the Stoic perspective dignity is something we maintain regardless of the opinion of others; it is a part of us as a human being but it is something we must maintain. 

Today, in the Washington Post, there was a piece by Jonathan Capehart that quoted Arthur Brooks, president of the American Enterprise Institute. Brooks is quoted as saying “Donald Trump was talking to people in the parts of America that have been truly forgotten and left behind now for generations in a way that was inherent.” Brooks added, "It helped people understand that he understood that they should have a sense of dignity, too." The article stated that these people have lost their dignity based upon society abandoning them. Because they don’t have decent jobs, have been neglected by the world, and that they now lack dignity or are in no position to maintain it. But, isn’t it possible to have no dignity while also having a great job, while being well educated, and having the full attention of the world? Dignity is something that comes from within the person regardless of their lot in life. We present our dignity based upon who we are. Not to say a job doesn't help, but it's not what gives a person dignity. Every human being has dignity and it's for them to lose.

Stoicism teaches that dignity is something we claim for ourselves without requiring the opinion of others. The person living in one of those neglected areas can maintain their dignity by continuing to be honest, diligent, ethical, and virtuous. Dignity is something we maintain under all circumstances and is independent of our individual situation. A great example of that type of person is James Stockdale who was a prisoner of war during the Vietnam War. He maintained his dignity, his honor under horrible circumstances. When we maintain our dignity, we may receive honor or esteem, but we maintain it without any expectations. The very act of being dignified is the act of being worthy, honored and esteemed by oneself. The Stoic stands outside of the opinion of others and maintains his virtuous course. In thinking of this, Donald Trump, holding the most powerful position in the world, lacks dignity. Those abandoned people can maintain their dignity and Donald Trump can discover it. As I heard many years ago: How can you be so poor that you can’t pick up the trash in your yard? You pick up the “trash” in your life based upon that internal, human dignity you maintain regardless of the opinion of others. Human dignity should not be dependent upon some good fortune out of our control. Human dignity is inherent within each of us, but it is something we are responsible for maintaining. The person with a great job that lies or cheats to gain his income completely lacks dignity. The unemployed man that rises early, cleans his room, shaves and puts on a clean shirt has dignity regardless of the status he has in society. The poorest man can be more dignified than the wealthiest. We are responsible for maintaining our dignity outside of our circumstances. The slave can have more dignity than the master. Be well.